Why Be Assertive

Assertive people:

•          Communicate effectively

They are able to express their feelings and opinions openly, without fear.

They use non-threatening verbal and non-verbal cues that resonate with their feelings in a conversation.

They use conversational tones and maintain eye contact.

•          Make good decision makers

They are good at choosing their battles, as they are aware of their limitations.

They are aware of others’ needs and their own needs, hence easily establish a ‘win-win’ for all parties.

They always evaluate options therefore solve problems more effectively.

•          Are self-confident and have a high self-esteem

They are self-aware: they know their strengths and weaknesses, goals and aspirations, and opportunities and threats.

They know their flaws and are proud of whom they are.

•          Make good leaders

They are objective as they usually seek to address the needs of the people.

They exercise responsibility without manipulation and overstepping.

They usually seek to nurture others.